Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Telugana Politics

Hi

Have come to blog after quite sometime. This time its about my feelings on the Telugana issue. It has been going on for quite a long time and now reached the peak. After MP/UP its now AP which is in the process of bifurcation. I am not sure if it will happen or not, But I sincerely pray it does not happen. It pains to see Our Country in blood sheds. Today its AP, tomorrow this may happen to Tamilnadu, Karnataka and almost whole of India. I have heard one of my friend who hails from Andhra, say that the Telugana part of Andhra is always the sick man of AP and is not a part of the creamy and fertile AP. They say they have been rejected by almost all political parties, and the places in the issue don't even have any basic amenities such as Roads, Full time electricity, proper Hospitals and so on. The orientation of this place is mainly based on the older Nizam days and many people here speak more of Urdu based Hindi than Telugu, which is supposed to be the official language of AP. She holds a strong opinion that bifurcation should happen. If these are the reasons, and if the people of Telugana are of the strong opinion that they are neglected, can't that be set right by the Politicians. Is bifurcating a solution. The riots that are happening, the blood shed, burning of effigies, disrupting traffic all these acts are barbaric and shameful. The whole world is watching, and mocking at us. I at times feel, India would have been better if British had continued ruling us. They would have been much better than all our corrupt politicians. Its disgraceful on the part of politicians, who are all having their own time at the cost of thousands of public. The film fraternity of AP (Tollywood) choose to keep silent on this issue. Andhra people love to listen to what their film heroes say, and they actually worship them. In this particular issue almost all the heroes have choosen to keep totally mum. I remember while we were studying, in our English text there was a chapter about Hunger strike, a form of Satyagraha, Mahatma Gandhi performed at South Africa, and while giving his opinion about the ways of Mahatma, fighting without shedding blood, Rajaji told Gandhiji that the Satyagraha, a weapon taken by Gandhi, would also become a bad precedent at a later date. This was the reason Rajaji was called "Deergadarshi" meaning a man who can see the distant future. I sincerely hope that if this reaches atleast a few who share my feeling, they would also join me in praying for peace and tranquility in India.

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Default Human attitudes...

Hi friends

It is a very casual characteristic I have noticed in many of us. May be this is general human psychology. Many people whom I have come across, talk a lot about themselves, their cokking, their hubby, children, father mother, brothers, sisters, grand children and everything concerning them and only about themselves. Its always about how well they did this and that, how good their cooking was, how very smart their children/grand children are and it goes on on on.......(always boasting)...The irony, is only these people comment when others say things about their hubby, dayghter/son or family, that the person is always bragging about themselves or their children as the case may be......I don't really understand what it is when they talk about themselves, there activities, families........Is that not part of bragging.........This reminds me of the famous quote "Pot calling the kettle black".........I happen to write about this after an incident that took place in my office. One of my staff member always has the habit of talking a lot about herself and she loves to say that she knows almost all the staff members pesonally (which is not at all the truth)....and she was passing a comment about another staff who was very casually talking about her friendship with Ms.Kanimozhi. I was taken aback by her comment and I asked right on her face do you know that she is lying........Why are many people like this.........Why can't we take others success???????


rathisrini
Thumbs up TV serial addiction

Hi friends,

This is a matter which is really disturbing me so much. Presently almost all serials that are being telecast are showing the women folk (doing negative roles) as born criminals. I don't watch any of them though....but the older generation in my home are obsessed to these serials and at times while I am with them happen to see some scenes and it is nothing but absurd. Can't something positive be shown in the channels. The Airtel Super Singer hosted in Vijay TV is really rocking. But the dance shows in which children below the age of 10 are dancing in provocative manner is painful. Why do the parents allow such things...Are the parents that eager to promote their Children in such a way.....Is it really right......... I am not against dance and I rather love the art. But the art should be cherished and not forced. At the end of a competetion, when the child loses, it starts crying and its sad to see them weeping. Would the media do something about such competetions...........I wish that the spirit of competetion should prevail to help the participants climb the ladder and not lose their confidence........This is my feeling and wish some change is brought in..........
Cool Sibling Rivalry

Hi Friends

I have taken a topic, which I am sure would have taken place in almost everyone's life. The topic is "Sibling Rivalry".Big Laugh

My father happens to be the only son amidst eight sisters. So he was his mom's pet (apple of her eyes) . So whatever he did was right in the family and he was a very brilliant man. (A dreamer, idealist and a straight forward person). He got married pretty late for those days, at the age of 32. I was born to this important man after one and half years of his marriage. So you could all guess how important a person I would have been. "Varathu vantha manickam" So, I was a rajakumari born into the family and a vvvvvip. My granny used to sing a song for waking me in the morning, and I was grown with only cow's milk as only that suited my health and no one in the home were even permitted to touch it (though I don't know any of these, this was narrated to me by my beloved aunts and my dear mom). One aunt use to bathe me, one used to dress and one use to sing lullaby to me........and I was enjoying each and every moment of all these attention. I remember some of them vaguely - the song was pachaikili koru sevanthi kkodu thottilil katti vaithen.......It was going on for six years..........and then came a new arrival into the family...........my lil bro chubby and like a freshly blossomed flower.........The first shake started.....Being the first male heirloom to carryout the family name (You see we are all jamindhar paramparai) almost every near and dear relatives and friends, thronged the home to see the lil wonder. Slowly Mr.J was peeping in........Well, it is pretty natural (all this I remember myself) I was becoming envious, and unable to take it......I used to shake the cradle zigzag when no one noticed me, pinch him and do something cranky and watch him cry... My granny realised this, and she stopped petting my lil bro in front of me and saw to it that I was getting the same importance as far as she was concerned. Slowly I was getting used to this.......Bro grew and it was time for him to join school, and Asharabhyasam was done in a grand scale......Though I was not happy about the fact that my importance was gone in the home, at school I used to really behave like his mom and take care of him totally. He used to be really cute and chubby and all my friends loved him. He was a bundle of innocence (well it was then and not now). Once in school he was playing with chalk piece and without even realising he inserted it in his nose, blood was pouring from his nose and I was crying my heart out. I was rambling and running from pillar to post. But thanks to my school authorities they took immediate step and the chalk was out and he became normal......and things were going on as usual. At home the scenario never changed. Whenever something was bought I immediately used to compare wat was bought for me and for him....If it was grapes, i used to count and see if he was given more.........crackers, I used to preserve mine and tease him when his quota was over.......Incidentally our birthdays are in the same month and falls on consecutive days, and the money spent for buying new dresses had to be shareMy 2cents Then at one point of time, I got over all such feeling (may be I really grew up) and started loving him.....We used to walk together to school and share so much and the bondage became inseparable........it was so much that my mom used to say that while sleeping both of us, used to blabber, (eventually we do they same when we are wide awake also) and i used to answer his querries and vice-versa. When I got married, and came to my hubby's place I missed him so much........There were many turmoils in his life after my dad, and he faced them all (thanks to the kind relatives who helped us). I saw him grow, and face everything with a charming smile.He climbed the ladder of success steadiy. And now my lil bro who is six years you to me, is more like a father to me than a younger brother.........I am proud to say this for he takes care of me like a dad, and he is always available whenever I need him. I really cherish the wonderful love and care that I receive from him and I adore him and his family.

This is the warmth you get from a closely knit family and we can proudly say that only in India, people can see such beautiful bondage....

with luv
rathisrini

Cost of Jadi .........Rs.24,000/

Cost of Jadi .........Rs.24,000/
Hi Friends,

This is my next post (I think the 6th). Wish to share something personal.

It was Mid of March and time for starting storing of all Mango based pickles for an year. So as usual my dh and I, went on a mango spree to all the locals (mylai and mambalam) in search of vadumangai, thokumangai and avakkai mangai. Finally we decided to buy our usual quota of vadumangai from both the places and came home.......I was asking my maid to keepall the jadi(wherein we store pickles) washed and clean. When a particular jadi was taken from the attic, my mil was telling my maid to handle the same with care stating "handle it with care,,,,,,athoda vellai 24,000 rupai".........and my whole family started laughing at that joke. Well I have to take you all four years back...............zzzzzzzzzzzzzooooooooooommmmmmm mmmm rewind over......Four years back it was same March and same spree........After purchasing the vadumangai, we decided on buying a new jadi, to preserve the same.............We went to Tiruvanmiyur and bought two jadis and came out of the shop.......my dh started the bike and now I have to take up the pillion seat. I was so engrossed in carrying the jadi's safely home that I did not realise the space between the platform and the bike...........I lifted my leg and tried placing it on the foot holder........dwiiiinggggggggg my god what was going on........all of a sudden I realised I was lying flat on the ground DrowningDrowningbut holding my jadis very carefully........my ankle had twisted but in my anxiety to finish my vadumangai work at home I ignored same and came home........and finished the work.........Next day when I woke up I saw my legs and they were like "Tirumalai Nayakar Mahal thoons", Swollen and Painful,,,,,,,I had to attend office for it was increment season........while walking towards the bus stand, I saw my bus and started running with my swollen legs, bags and waterbottle and I was looking like a cartoon caricature. But when I reached the bus, righ right............the nice kind conductor blew the whistle and I had another fall (Had a great fall)........and came home in an auto (the distance from the bus stop and my home is jus two min walk and for this I paid Rs.30/ to the auto man). My dear daughter was at home and when I told her that I had another fall........she asked me whether there were any swami padam in the bus, which made me prostrate to the bus in the middle of the road..........(even today she keeps telling everyone, 'you know enga ammaku bakthi muthi poi, 47a busuku kooda namaskaram pannina')...........lo! now my legs were unshakable..........evening came and dh came............and now it was on spree of doctors..............

first was our local doctor, who said "onnumilla ma, kalu sullukindiruku and he gave me pain killers and tabs" ate all of them for a week...........but my legs had decided not to reduce.

next we went to an ortho doc........"He had a wonderful time with me........take this x-ray/that x-ray and so on........You see we have to start a new set of treatment...........(I was feeling like a white rat in the table of a Scientist)......and a fresh set of new medicines and physiotherapy............So everyday I attended the therapist..........already in gr8 pain they added to it with wax treatment......heat treatment.......and many new ways (Cost Rs.350/- per day) this went for 10 days.............By this I was slowly getting used to my swollen legs and started feeling it as a part of my body.

Another ten days gone...........what next, ideas were pouring from friends and relatives.........The suggestions received this time was discussed by the board of directors (my dh, dd, sis in law) and to try ayurvedic treatment was finally approved by the committee.............. Now it was the ayurvedic doc's turn.......... She sawall the reports and came to a conclusion that one of the reason is also my weight ( though I was not happy about it.....I had to take it) So all english medicines out and ayurvedic tablets, chooranams and oils in.........She also wanted me to take up ayurvedic herbal masage everyday.......for min a week........and now I was lying in the massage table having masage..........The lady use to actually sink me in oil and after half an hour..........I would have to take up bath with payathmavu.........after that the doctor use to apply a pack on my knee with some three pastes and eggs white.........back home it used to be fine for first two hours and as and when the pack dries it used to be really painful and worst was I had to depend on others for each and every action of mine................(Sitting in the chair, I had to ask my dd and dh to run my errands and I was actually enjoying some portions of it)........After this treatment, my home was smelling of all ayurvedic oil stuff and my dd started saying "amma please shift your dresses to some other almirah......I am not able to take it......So I had to do away with all my nighties and go for fresh ones---------(Cost Rs.1,000/-)

So after this I decided to attend Office from the following Monday........Well back to office after 20 days..........All my friends came and enquired some with real empathy, some curious, some advising me.............After all these, my head was rolling withall the pending work........and after heaving a sigh started my work............But by evening, my pain got aggravated and back home I was in tears............I told my dh that I cannot take it anymore..........

By now a collegue of my hubby, whose wife is a chronic ostereopherosis patient suggested Dr.Madhu Thottapilil, a very famour orthopeadic doctor (He happens to be Sachin Tendulkers......doctor) and I finally visited him......He saw all my reports, and finally said I had a Ligament tear and my tissues in the knee are all damaged (Grand Final - Findings) He suggesed that my tissues have to regrow and I should take treatment for a period of 6 months.......and suggested a tablet by name Rejoint (A single capsule is a composition of two one in blue colour and another in yellow) three times a day for a period of six months........which I adhered.........and atlast it was all over............... (Cost of the medicine - Rs.8,000/-)

And finally the swelling started reducing after ten days of treatment, but I continued the medication fully, fearing a repeat telecast of same......

Hence Cost of Jadi = Rs.24,000/-

Thankgod, I am alright now........but every year, whenever the jadi is taken out.........memories are back........and my dear mil says its a priced property.............

with luv
rathisrini

The Omnipresent Sai Baba of Shirdi

Default The Omnipresent Sai Baba of Shirdi

Dear Friends,

This post of mine is about what happened in my life which made me realise the omnipresence of my beloved Sai Baba. We had a family friend who also had jus a daughter, an identical family like ours and we had a practice of going out for dinner together every month. My daughter was then jus two years old and theirs four. Padma, is the name of my friend and she is a very ardent devotee of Saieesha. It was a thursday and we had planned to go out for dinner on that day. Padma used to visit MylaporeSai Baba temple every Thursday and pray to Sairam. So she suggested that we all go first to the temple and then proceed for dinner. Though we all accepted, I had my own inhibitions first.....(I always used to feel that no human being can be God) We all went to the temple and there was huge crowd and a group of people were singing Bhajans on Sayee. We stood in the queue and finally entered the main sanctum of the shrine....Baba was sitting with a warm and welcome smile. All the devotees fell at his feet and payed their respects to him with love and devotion. I followed suit, but with a bit of reluctance. It was all over and when we came to the main hall, I noticed thatmy daughter was missing.......All along she had been holding my hand and I was shocked to see she was not there near me. My hubby and his friend were going in the front and I called him and asked if my dd was with him only to get a big no for answer. By this time I was slowly becoming panickyfor the place was thickly crowded and lots and lots of beggers were sitting outside the shrine. Slowly people started understanding that something was amiss and they also started searching formy daughter . By now I was weeping and was hysteric. I ran from pillar to post and went to all the places in the temple (The temple comprises of a big hall, the main sanctum, a small room in the side where the dhvani is always lit and at the backside a calm meditation hall).My daughter was seen no where. I came out and started running on the road hear and there and even begged with the beggers to tell me if they saw my lil daughter. Everyone started searching formy daughter in the temple and the priests were all perplexed....My lil dd was not seen anywhere and I broke. Padma who had also been searching all along came to me and asked me one straight question "Bharathi, did you pay a visit without any belief.... If you doubt the existence Babaji, pl go and plead to him for your daughter". It was a straight blow. I ran to the vigraham of Baba and fell at his feet and wept pleading him to excuse my ignorance. Within seconds, a voice called us and said " a small girl is sitting near the dvani, see if its your daughter " Me and My dh ran to that place and there she was sitting petitely. Tears engulfed my eyes and I huggedmy daughter and ran to Baba again, this time to thank him, as she was a gift given back to me by none other than Baba himself. When asked where she was all along, she said I was sitting here only.........while that place was searched by all of us and many other devotees 'n' number of times and no one saw her. Sairam opened my eyes and made me realise his omnipresence. To this day, whenever I am disturbed, I pray to my friend philosopher and guide Lord Ganesha, My kuladeivam Balaji and My Dear Baba..........I strongly feel I have been bestowed with the best in everything only because of the grace of the Almighty.

{Dhvani is the ever lit fire, which was first lit by Baba and Shirdi and is brought from there to all the Babaji Shrines. The sacred ash is called Udhi and it is taken from the Dhvani. Sandlewood, Samprani Powder, Navadhanyam are all offered in the Dhvani}

"om sai sri sai jai jai sai" pranams to the lotus feet of shirdi saibaba.

with luv
rathisrini

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Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Recent happenings that disturbed me

Recent events that are taking place in many of the parts of our Country is disturbiung me. The Advocate incidents that took place in Chennai is the heights of unlawful act (enacted by people who are supposed to be the protectors of law). I had visited the Court premises after a week and the place looked ransacked. Who is to be blamed is still being argued by all political parties who see this as a platform for starting their bickerings . Even otherwise during my earlier visits, I have always felt that the lawyers always acted indifferently towards police. So the police had their day. To add to it the advocates went to the extreme of destroying the Justice Krishna Commission Report, on the incident. The next one is the death of medico Aman. The death is once again because of ragging. Few years back it was Tirunavukarasu, medical student who was studying in Annamalai University. Somehow such ragging incidents are more in professional colleges. The death of Aman is a very big loss to his family. Even worse is the loss faced by the family of the accused. They would be shattered by the arrest of their children. All their dreams and hopes about their wards are now over. To add to it they also have to face the society. As usual out politicians are enjoying their own piece of cake by asking some persons to resign taking moral responsibility. I really wonder how people who are to save life can themselves indulge in such inhuman act. Education is supposed to make a human civilised. But it looks that we are back to barbarism and enjoy fighting on the name of Religion, Caste, Community, Language and the list goes on.......

Friday, March 6, 2009

Blogging after long time

I am back to blogging in my dashboard after a lapse of almost an year. Though I kept viewing many other people's blog spot......and was also sharing my views with them........somehow I had not been blogging in my own space. Last year was full of hectic events.....some good and some not so good......some bad......But, one good thing about last year was that my daughter got engaged to a very good friend of hers and the year ended with lots of happiness. I went to Tirupati thrice last year and we went on pilgrimage to so many different temples in and around Kumbakonam, Tanjore and Trichy. It was our family's turn at Varagur Mandagapadi during Chitirai Varuzha Pirapu.......a wonderful honour bestowed on only four families at our hometown temple. So the whole family was there and it was a wonderful day. Wish we could do this regularly every fourth year.........My Bro's family came back to India for good...and it is nice to have your kith and kin near you.........All along he was away and it is real long time since we were together in our family functions.........(the last function that the two of us were together was during his daughter's birthday).......I am happy he will be here for my daughter's wedding. It is really painful to see your loved ones staying away for various reasons in a different country and you don't get to see them for two to three years.......I am happy he is back........and I would get to meet him often now........On the whole, last year went on well and hope the grace of god would continue to be the same........this year also.